You need to make sure you continue to do nothing and wait for her to contact you. She doesn’t text me as much as she did before, and if she does, it’s a very brief message. (A woman’s level of romantic interest/attraction for you will fluctuate based upon how well you do with her tests and how much or how little weakness you display.) It seems like her interest level has gone down. We even spent a night together, (Awesome! Good job!) but recently she acts really strange. I did follow your advice, and everything seemed okay. It’s me Ray, I e-mailed you a week ago about this girl who cut me off first, but then came back after. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail: They recently spent the night together, but now he has noticed that she is backing off once again and he is unsure of what to do next. The following is an e-mail from a reader who is in the process of re-attracting a girl who dumped him. In other words, they are happy to have her, but they are just as happy without her and feel no sense of loss or diminishment if she chooses another. Men who have a take it or leave it attitude.
Women go crazy for guys they have to work for and for men who seem indifferent. Women dump and reject guys who chase them. In order for a woman’s feelings for you to develop slowly over time and continue to stay at a high level, she should be doing 70 to 80% of the pursuing and calling.
If it’s below that you will never hear from her again. If her interest level is still in the 50% range, you’ve still got a chance and she will still contact you. Because when she starts to fear or starts to realize that unless she reaches out to you, she will never hear from you again, she will reveal exactly how much or how little she cares about you.
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